Living in a pandemic is difficult, but teaching parents, grandparents, and this is even more difficult.
Due to misinformation on the Internet, stress, and the desire not to show off, most people aged do not take coronavirus seriously. Here’s how to explain to your loved ones the dangers of the situation and help them deal with the consequences of the pandemic.
1. Use the correct language
Avoid the words “elderly”, “vulnerable”, “weakened”, “painful”. Many do not classify themselves in such categories and believe that the virus does not threaten them. Instead, it’s better to focus on specific examples. According to WHO, people over 60 are at greater risk, and those over 80 die more often.
It is also worth mentioning cases of infection of famous people. For example, Tom Hanks, who, despite his good shape, is already 63. Recently, the actor and his wife passed tests for coronavirus. The results are positive.Lifehacker has a Telegram channel where we publish the latest information on the prevention and control of coronavirus. Subscribe!
2. Show that you know how to listen
Trying to convince grandparents, make it clear that you hear them, and not just express your point of view. If they say: “I feel good, do not worry,” reply in spirit: “Now you are in order, so it seems that there is no reason for alarm.”
It is very important. When a person sees that they are listening to him, he becomes more open and he listens to his interlocutor.
3. Use facts and comparisons
COVID – 19 is a new disease. Therefore, it is difficult not only for the older generation, but also for younger people to understand what is happening. Based on the available data and experience, the following comparison can be made:
The new virus spreads like a common cold, but is deadly, like a heart attack.
4. Explain that they should help others.
Usually people do not attach importance to danger when it comes to themselves. It is important to convey to relatives that, following the rules, they help others.
Being quarantined and following the recommendations of doctors, parents, grandparents reduce the risk of spreading the infection. So, first of all, they help preserve the health of their loved ones.
5. Do not dump them all at once
After talking about the pandemic and the dangers of the virus, relatives will feel depressed. Do not try to solve all problems at once. Better focus on the most important, and later return to the discussion.
Instead of forbidding relatives to leave home, offer to buy everything you need for them.
In addition, agreeing with one thing is always easier than accepting a list of conditions.
6. Show that you can communicate from a distance
It is important not to leave relatives who already suffer from loneliness, alone with themselves. Customize them or your old smartphone, tablet or laptop. Help to master video communication programs and instant messengers.
7. Show your love
Communicate with loved ones regularly. Find out how things are going, support in difficult times and see if relatives listen to your advice.
8. Do your best to protect
Here is a checklist that each of us must follow to help our aged relatives survive the coronavirus pandemic.
- Ask not to leave home without extreme need and follow WHO recommendations.
- Buy and bring food, medicine and everything you need.
- Communicate regularly, help solve problems, support.
- Bring books, download movies and TV shows to distract from news reports.
- Warn about scammers who have activated in the wake of the coronavirus and offer tests and other services.
If you know what else you can do, write in the comments.
- 18 Photos That Really Catch Your Eye To a Non-Standard Angle
If you cannot make out whether there is a dog in front of you or a pig, and stones seem to be speaking, then do not rush to think that something is wrong with you. Perhaps it’s all about a distorted perspective or a particular position from which you view the subject.
We have some photos that could have been completely banal, but thanks to the camera angle, they seriously hooked Internet users.
I looked up from dinner so utterly confused. Quite silly once you realize what’s going on with the knife.
“This banana is painted on the floor of a grocery store.”
“It’s a Pumpkin. She is 19 and this is her best photo. “
“I thought I had left the trunk open.”
“From this angle it seems that the Sphynx cat is already ready for baking.”
“A dog became my driver”
“The cow looks like it is chewing on another smaller cow”
From this angle, the building looks like a solid wall of windows
“It took me a while to see the second good boy.”
Accidentally created a porcupine by pouring instant coffee over an Americano
“Come I will give you a hug”
The tenement paradise looks like this
“When my dog lies in this position, it looks like a pig.”
“A hornet’s nest has grown around the spotlights in the garage.”
Went boating on Saratoga Lake, NY and saw this cloud that looks like a Victorian lady
“This wonderful moment my wife and I captured last weekend in Canada.”
“My neighbor has a cow in the garden … but I need new glasses.”
Bonus: “I wanted to photograph my daughter falling asleep. And got the best photo of our cat “
There any cases when your vision let you down or because of the angle, objects and people opened from a new side? Write about it.
Photo by Butsrsly / Reddit
- 14 Pairs of Popular Actresses of The Past And Present at The Same Age
As the ancients said, times change and we change with them. Moreover, first of all, our appearance undergoes transformation. And, as you can see, for the better, because the XXI century gave people everything to prolong youth: from caring means to all kinds of plastic surgery services.
We have studied archival photographs of popular actresses of the past and compared them with modern photographs of rising stars. From today’s selection, you will find out how the celebrities who were on the crest of fame decades ago and those who now get the best roles looked at the same age.
2. Monica Bellucci and Selena Gomez at 27
3. Helen Hunt and Mamie Gummer at 34
4. Pamela Anderson and Sara Paxton at 31
5. Julianne Moore and Leighton Meester at 30
6. Thandie Newton and Vanessa Hudgens at 30
7. Sharon Stone and Kaley Cuoco at 29
8. Susan Sarandon and Kristen Stewart at 28
9. Jennifer Connelly and Emma Roberts at age 26
10. Elizabeth Perkins and Emma Watson at age 26
11. Gillian Anderson and Meryem Uzerli at 25
12. Helen Mirren and Scarlett Johansson at 24
13. Brooke Shields and Elle Fanning at 22
14. Ornella Muti and Hailee Steinfeld at 22
Do you think such a notice difference is related to the development of the beauty industry, or did people just age more slowly?