10 Easy Steps to Help You Become a Good Parent

10 Easy Steps to Help You Become a Good Parent. Parenting is a responsible task. We tell you how to upgrade the skills of moms and dads to raise a happy child.

1. Stay close

One of the important truths is that you can’t be near a child while thinking in another place.

You cannot play dinosaurs with children and think about business at the same time. This does not work.

You must be completely with your child. Accept the philosophy of “wherever I am, you are by my side.”

2. Engage in co-creation

With the help of creativity, the child learns the world around him, experiences different emotions and learns to cope with fears. It also develops imagination, creativity and a sense of beauty. Try to do something together: sculpt, draw, cut out shapes, take pictures. Creativity is everything that is filled with beauty, inspiration and imagination.

3. Make environmental care a priority

In order for children to learn to value a different point of view and show empathy, they need to constantly hear from you how important care is. And also understand that the world does not revolve only around them. Teach them to turn off the TV and help you around the house, be polite, even if they are in a bad mood, and not interrupt people during a conversation.

4. Love without reservation

Often, to teach a child a lesson, parents deprive him of love: for poor grades they show their dislike, for a broken phone they leave without sweets. In this way they demonstrate that love must be earned. First, the child must clean the apartment, eat all the vegetables, but only then he can be hugged or praised. It is not right.

The stronger the support that the child receives is determined, the lower the perception of one’s own value as a person.

Children who receive love with reservations turn into adults who underestimate themselves and constantly criticize. But the lucky ones who deserve absolute acceptance grow into more harmonious and confident personalities.

5. Do not forget about intelligence

The authors of parenting books, Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne-Bryson write: “During development, the child’s brain mirrors what happens in the parents’s brains.” That is, when you replenish your level of knowledge and learn to manage emotions, your children also reap these benefits. This means that improving intelligence is one of the greatest and most generous gifts you can give your child.

6. Read and discuss books

Reading is an important stage in the development of children. To instill a love of literature will help a personal example. If a child constantly sees you with a book, he will also want to read in the end. But one example is not enough. Read books together and discuss what they read. So you will help the child to develop speech and imagination, arouse in him a thirst for knowledge, teach to think.

7. Empathize with the child

Children learn empathy by observing adult relationships. Therefore, it is so important to show an example of the correct relationship to each other. Be attentive to children, take an interest in their affairs and well-being: this way you will become closer to them, create an atmosphere of trust, security and form a desire to give the world good.

8. Expand your care

Empathy requires practice — within and outside the family. It is important to first teach the child how to take care of relatives and then empathize and help strangers. Show that you need to be careful about those who are different from us, who are defenseless and weak. Give your child simple tips on how to act in order to comfort and support your neighbor.

9. Hug children more often

Touching and hugging is not just pleasant. When we hug someone, oxytocin is released (it is called the “hug hormone”) and we feel love and a surge of tenderness. Emory University even found a connection between touch and stress reduction.

If you hug children more often, they better cope with difficulties in adulthood. And kids who are deprived of touch can be late in development: they begin to talk and read later.

10. Remember that perfection does not exist.

Most parents always want to do everything right and blame themselves for every mistake. Yes, to be an example is a lofty goal. But parents should show their children their imperfection and teach them how to overcome the difficulties of life .

If you reproach yourself for any mistakes, then just remember the words of Professor Bren Brown: “It is the ability to admit one’s imperfection that helps instill in children the courage to be real, compassion for themselves and other people and the unity that gives a person the true purpose and meaning of life.”

The article was prepared on the basis of the books “ Magic of the morning for the whole family ”, “ Parenting by the heart ”, “ Hormones of happiness ”.

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