11 Features of Appearance That Most Women Consider to be Disadvantages. It Turned Out, Very Vain

For some reason, many women like to find flaws in themselves: either their legs are short, then a few extra pounds, or their eyebrows are not thick enough. Although it is possible that all that the girls call flaws is their zest, which the opposite sex actually likes and sets them apart from the crowd.


We at Happy Worthy Life decided to find out what flaws on which girls are fixated look like virtues in the eyes of men. To do this, we arranged a small survey of the male part of our editorial staff, and also rummaged in popular forums. By the way, in the end you will find a rather unexpected bonus.

1. Lush hips

11 Features of Appearance That Most Women Consider to be Disadvantages. It Turned Out, Very Vain
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For many years, women have been taught that prominent hips should be hidden with clothing and heels. But ideally, it is better, of course, to lose weight in order to look like models from magazines. However, in the past few years, the situation has begun to change – lush hips have turned from a lack of dignity, which should not be hidden. At the same time, men always liked the appetizing forms, this was confirmed by scientific research.

The opinion of men:

  • I love lush hips because it is more feminine than thinness. The narrow hips make me think of my own hips. After all, I don’t want another guy in my bed. © Janko Petrik / Quora
  • I am happy that the rounded shape of the buttocks has finally come into fashion and the girls are no longer seeking to lose weight. But in the zero I suffered when many of my beloved dreamed of being like models.

2. Freckles


Some women consider freckles to be some kind of skin flaw and try to get rid of them by any means, buying whitening creams and  hiding freckles under a concealer . And it’s very vain, because it’s a pretty and rather rare natural jewelry that gives the face touch and charm.

The opinion of men:


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3. Small tummy

An attractive woman will always have a soft bend around her abdomen. Only a man who does not have fat below the waist can have a stomach as flat as a washboard. A female tummy is a sign of femininity. Rounded thighs, buttocks and abdomen are powerful signs of sexual attractiveness in women. ©  Ulysses Elias / Quora

I like the female tummy because it is soft and it is a rather vulnerable part of the body, very similar to the neck, so touching the female belly is a very sensual and intimate thing, very similar to a kiss on the neck. © Caleb Beers / Quora


4. Small breasts

11 Features of Appearance That Most Women Consider to be Disadvantages. It Turned Out, Very Vain

A fairly common misconception: the larger the chest, the more she likes the opposite sex. Unsurprisingly, bust augmentation surgery is so popular. But it turns out that men have their own views on this issue.


The opinion of men:

  • Honestly, I like any female breast, it is beautiful! This is quite difficult to explain, but the shape of the female breast is very different from the male, and it is this difference that we like. © Greg Donovan / Quora
  • Small breasts are good. Men like girls with a proportional figure. Nothing should look strange, such as a very large chest. ©  Donald Fone  / Quora
  • It’s so cool – a neat little chest. The aesthetics of small breasts are exciting. I had girls with a third and one, even with a fourth size, but for me they are less attractive than the first and especially the second size. ©  Tima Baranov / Thequestion

5. Low growth

Short girls often complex because of their height, put on high heels and try to visually add a couple of centimeters with the help of clothes. And in vain, because short is not a drawback.

The opinion of men:

  • Growth does not matter, the girl’s personality is important, but short stature has a number of advantages. For example, guys like it when they hug a girl’s head on his chest. And you can lift it at any time.
    © Sritam Sambit / Quora
  • Personally, I like girls up to 160 cm, but I don’t attach much importance to growth. With my height of 174 cm, this, firstly, looks organic, and secondly, the little girls are very cute for me, I want to immediately grab or hug in my arms, and also funny situations when they can’t get anything off the shelf , eg. ©  Dmitry Ponomarchuk / Thequestion
  • Personally, with a height of 177 cm, I like short girls, from about 165 to 170 cm. Of course, this is not the most important factor, but it looks very aesthetically very cool when the girl is small and neat. © Nikita Chomutov / Thequestion

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6. Points

In school years, some girls are embarrassed to wear glasses, as they fear becoming an object of ridicule. Sometimes a children’s complex is transferred to adulthood , and girls tend to get rid of glasses. At the same time, many men admire this accessory.

The opinion of men:

  • Girls with glasses are cool. It looks cute and adds some fragility to the image. Maybe a stereotype, but it creates the impression of a smart person. Especially now, the girls understood this and began to put on just glasses, with glasses without diopters. In any case, do not be shy, for a girl this is a very good accessory. © Jackie Chan / Thequestion
  • Very sensitive. I have no idea why. Each girl with glasses looks much better. My theory is that glasses divide the face aesthetically neatly. ©  Stephen Charbonneau / Quora
  • I can say that often glasses on girls look very attractive and sexy. And some even with glasses look better than without. ©  Mechanical Engineer / Thequestion

7. Disheveled hair, sloppy hairstyle

Sometimes women spend a lot of time on a neat hairstyle or perfect styling, and the slightest blow of the wind causes a panic attack. But men admit that they like disheveled hair, they find it very attractive.

The opinion of men:

  • A light mess on your head will not scare anyone away. Uncritical negligence is quite attractive.
  • Sloppy bum plus lack of makeup plus an old bathrobe. What can say more about the growing trust in your relationship than the moment when a girl appears in front of a guy in her “pristine” form?

8. Lack of makeup

Oddly enough, but too bright makeup, with bright lipstick and a thick layer of tonal means, repels men, but does not attract. Guys love to make their face look as natural as possible: not necessarily without makeup, but rather a more natural option.

The opinion of men:

  • Most men do not like face makeup. However, most men will not be able to distinguish light makeup from its absence. © Paul Lashomb / Quora
  • Many girls themselves do not understand how beautiful they are and how their “coloring” spoils everything. Either they do not understand, or they are chasing after some ephemeral standards. ©  Nikolai Maksutov / Thequestion
  • Makeup makes ladies brighter, but not more beautiful. Adds “plastics” to the look. 99% of the women I saw with and without makeup look better without it. By the way, since such a dance, explain to me what kind of fashion went to remove eyebrows and draw new ones? How does it feel to wake up next to a lady who has no eyebrows? ©  Dog Dog / Thequestion

9. Stretch marks 

11 Features of Appearance That Most Women Consider to be Disadvantages. It Turned Out, Very Vain

Despite the fact that stretch marks are completely natural, especially on delicate skin, some women are embarrassed about them. And in vain, because the guys either do not notice these stripes at all , or find them quite cute. Especially if they appeared after the woman gave birth to a child.

The opinion of men:

  • Oddly enough, I even like stretch marks, especially on the chest. This is sexy. And I cannot be the only one. Partly, probably, this is because I know that it’s also not perfect, therefore, noting that a woman is imperfect, I feel at ease. © Valter Viglietti / Quora
  • I love my wife and her stretch marks, which she received after giving birth to my 4 beautiful children. ©  C Scott Nielsen / Quora
  • A normal man knows that this happens because of quick weight loss, and after pregnancy. It `s naturally. I probably love women too much that I do not pay attention to it. Stretch marks are as normal as corns on the heel glued with plaster. ©  Edward the Ordinary / Thequestion

10. Teeth and smile

Another favorite standard is the so-called Hollywood smile: smooth and snow-white teeth without a single flaw. However, in the pursuit of excellence, it is important not to forget that any imperfection is a highlight , and the sincere smile of a loved one is always beautiful. By the way, the dent between the front teeth, or diastema, is considered the norm in dentistry.

The opinion of men:

  • One girl had a beautiful gap between her teeth. Her smile lit up the room. However, when I first met her, she could not smile without covering her mouth. I hated that. Family members and classmates laughed at her crinkle, and she was very shy of her teeth. And for me, she looked very naughty and sexy. © Marc Robinson / Quora
  • Shchebinka will always look nice to me. In addition, my friend has one, and it’s amazing. © Okereke Onyekachi / Quora

11. Natural eyelashes

Girls who have short and not very lush eyelashes by nature, very often resort to the extension procedure. Women see this as one plus: it’s convenient, you can not splurge on cosmetics, and your eyes become brighter, but the opposite sex does not agree with them.

The opinion of men:

  • I don’t like fake eyelashes. Like bright lipstick, as well as tons of “plaster”. The best beauty is natural. Someone says that you may not notice extended eyelashes. I don’t know how others are, but I immediately notice them. © Nikita Mikryukov / Thequestion
  • For some reason, many girls think that eyelash extensions make their eyes expressive. It is clear that when they are 5 cm and are bent in an unnatural way, they are definitely not real. Rhinestones are also molded for some reason. In short, their own are better, there is nothing to be embarrassed about.
  • I usually notice fake eyelashes. This is pretty obvious and rarely looks good, even if they are made professionally. There is something that distracts them. They are plastic. But mascara looks great. © the-solar-sailer / Reddit

Bonus: leaked makeup

Several guys emphasized what they like when the girl got a little mascara or lipstick smeared they believes that this is how the girl looks cute and defenseless.

Why do you think the difference between female and male perceptions is so great? Perhaps girls are fixated on trifles, and guys prefer to evaluate the whole image?

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